{"id":409,"date":"2013-11-27T16:52:47","date_gmt":"2013-11-27T16:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/18.191.22.100\/?p=409"},"modified":"2013-11-27T16:52:47","modified_gmt":"2013-11-27T16:52:47","slug":"improve-your-speech-part-four","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fargate.dev.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/improve-your-speech-part-four\/","title":{"rendered":"Improve Your Speech: Part Four"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The fourth tip in our <a href=\"http:\/\/oorahspirit.org\/new-series-improve-your-speech\/\" title=\"New Series! Improve Your Speech\">series on <em>shmiras halashon<\/em><\/a> by Mrs. Tova Younger. <\/p>\n<p>If you have trained yourself to judge favorably, you&#8217;ll be your very own best lawyer! When our final judgment comes upon us, we will be called upon to judge our own lives, but we won&#8217;t recognize ourselves. Not only that, but Hashem judges us in the way that we judge others.<\/p>\n<p>Train yourself by playing the following game: Try to think of five reasons that make this action totally acceptable, or at least not so bad. Untamed, our initial reaction could bring us to rash conversation. Minimally, such a game will probably defuse and calm down your emotional feelings. If you have a sense of humor, it could distract you, remove negative feelings and even put you in a laughing mood. <\/p>\n<p>Conclusion: Make judging favorably a firm habit. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Warning!<\/strong> When defending someone, be sure to steer clear of unnecessarily vilifying the other side. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The fourth tip in our series on shmiras halashon by Mrs. Tova Younger. If you have trained yourself to judge favorably, you&#8217;ll be your very own best lawyer! 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