{"id":2021,"date":"2017-04-20T15:46:05","date_gmt":"2017-04-20T15:46:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/18.191.22.100\/?p=2021"},"modified":"2017-04-20T15:46:05","modified_gmt":"2017-04-20T15:46:05","slug":"8-ways-teach-child-gratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fargate.dev.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/8-ways-teach-child-gratitude\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Ways to Teach Your Child Gratitude"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some great practical tips on teaching gratitude to children<\/a><\/p>\n

1. Give Beyond Your Friends and Family<\/strong><\/p>\n

When giving gifts (such as Chanukah or mishloach manos or anytime\u00a0throughout the year) to teachers, friends, and family, remember the people like the plumber, the store clerks, the handyman, and the neighbor whose kitchen you frequently shop in. People who you rarely remember until you call on them will really appreciate being remembered, and your kids will learn from watching.<\/p>\n

2. Make a Family Program<\/strong><\/p>\n

Give your kids incentive to notice what others did for them. \u00a0Ari held the door for me on the way out to carpool; Thank you Yaffa for offering me the last cookie! \u00a0For each action they want to thank someone else for, they may put a popcorn kernel in a baby food jar. When it fills up, make a popcorn party or some other fun activity to reward everyone for their actions and for thanking each other.<\/p>\n

3. Express It in Writing<\/strong><\/p>\n

Leave notes under the challah cover for your husband, thanking him for things he did from Shabbos to Shabbos (I heard this one from Mrs. Bonnie Cohen of Yerushalayim).<\/p>\n

4. Give Your Kids a Bag\u00a0of Notes<\/strong><\/p>\n

Give personalized bags of tiny papers filled with thank you notes to your kids. These bags come in so many colors you can get a designated color for each child. Do them even for those who cannot read; they will love to hear them read to them over and over.<\/p>\n

5. Say It Out Loud<\/strong><\/p>\n

Notice Hashem\u2019s kindness in foods (fruits are especially easy) and show the kids: the star that shows up in an apple when you cut it in half, the skin that protects, the attractive colors, etc.<\/p>\n

6. Say Thank You<\/strong><\/p>\n

Thank Hashem out loud, in front of your kids. Do this by making clear blessings out loud. \u00a0Also thank Hashem in your own everyday language, aloud. Let your kids hear you. (\u2026 \u201csee how Hashem made your teeth fall out only one at a time?What a chesed! Your skin grew back to cover your papercut? Amazing! Thank you, Hashem\u00a0for guiding my footsteps today so that at exactly the most helpful time I met into\u2026or,\u00a0Hashem, thank you\u00a0for the rain,, and thanks for holding it until just after I brought in all the groceries\u2026)<\/p>\n

7. Look for the Best<\/strong><\/p>\n

Privately think of a challenge that you are going through, and thank Hashem for something sweet inside that challenge. \u00a0Do this daily and it will become a part of you. Whatever is a part of you (hopefully just the good stuff) affects your kids even without a conscious effort to give it to them.<\/p>\n

8. Play a Game<\/strong><\/p>\n

Play The G<\/a>ratitude Game (at the supper table, or at the Shabbos meal) and keep a running list of things you have never thanked Hashem for before! Have you ever thanked Hashem for gravity? Isn\u2019t it sweet Hashem gave us the experience of gravity so that every time your learning-to-walk toddler falls, you don\u2019t have to peel him off the ceiling? (Thank you Rabbi Z. Pliskin for this image.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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